7 life tips for your bosom buddy
These suggestions can work well to strengthen your bonding. An awesome friendship forever!
Confused with the meaning of “Bosom” — google has the answer (screenshot below)
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When I say a close buddy- I’m honest with relationships.
When I’m in low moods( or at difficult times) — I do expect a supporting hand to hold me. For me, it’s my friend. What’s yours?
What’s Friendship (I mean — true)?
A relationship where you can openly speak your heart out with no fear of being judged. The one, where he/she tries his/her “best” to understand your issue(s).
Your bestie might not be able to cut down your sorrows, but he should definitely be able to share them with you. When you fall, he laughs but at the same time, raises his hand to support you.
This is what — in my perspective — what you call true friendship.
Life’s tricky — and everyone can withstand diverse situations — isn’t TRUE.
Practical inspiring life-suggestions are required to avoid the issues.
Here are 7 life tips for your bosom buddy:
(1) Ignore the cunning ones (Purposely)
Have you recognized any self-seeking entity around you?
If so, it’s not preferable to be near them.
People we meet in our lives are different. Try to understand and perceive the people around you. Fake or true — matters the most. keeping a distance from sly’s is advisable as they can never be friends for eternity.
(2) Know- Who’re YOU?
What’s your strength and weakness?
We all do have, right? Think to consider.
Your bezzie is more affluent?- don’t underestimate yourself.
Never judge for materialistic things.
Be compassionate and live your life enthusiastically. One day, money and status are going to vanish, but behavior, knowledge, and thoughts will stay forever.
(3) Yourself — At first.
We have affectionate relationships, bounded emotionally. Isn’t it?
But self-recognition matters primarily.
God has given us a purposeful life. Find your Ikigai (your reason for being) — the purpose you’ve been sent to this world.
Respect your dreams — do your best to achieve.
(4) You have an opinion — Make it!
The truth will set you free, but first, it will make you miserable.
This inspiring saying by James A. Garfield has a lot to tell.
A true friend — a possible genuine critic, but will stand for you whenever required. And, will make you realize your positive strength during difficult times or in low moods and, will restrict your negatives to make a place in your thoughts —
An unbiased version. I believe.
A true friend has the potential to show a mirror so, you can make a demarcation between — What’s wrong, What’s right. Am I right?
(5) Admit faults — You’ll be at ease.
We are humans and we all make mistakes. Right?
No one is perfect. Be noble enough to accept your gaps. It’s not justifiable to prove yourself correct by making multiple excuses. Mistakes will always be a mistake. Have the courage to admit.
A real buddy always brings you out as the best version of yourself!
Even if he mentions your mistakes, he is helping you another way. So, never hesitate because wrongs can also teach us good things in some way.
(6) Respect their views/opinions
The beauty of a relationship — listen and understand.
A bosom buddy as a listener can lighten up any of the worse situations. So to be a great friend, be a good listener.
Allow others to place their- thoughts, views, suggestions.
Once they have expressed themselves satisfyingly — present your point.
(7) Initiate as a FRIEND — First!
A true friend is like a secret diary you can tell them anything and they don’t judge you or open to anyone but you.
A fundamental mantra to maintain every relationship is confidentiality. Be honest and never clash two relationships. Don’t talk about your bestie’s secret in front of another person as your actions speak of your loyalty.
I’m hoping to inspire and motivate others to create and have a true friendship. Ty!
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Disclaimer: The ideas/views/information expressed in the article are based upon personal experiences and extracts from online sources.
